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There’s a quiet revolution happening, and women all over the world are embracing it. We’re tired of glorifying stress. Tired of breaking our backs to prove we’re “strong.”  As a matter of fact, I've often heard people say afterall "there's no trophy for who suffered the most". This year, more women are unapologetically choosing the soft life, a life of ease, peace, self-care, and boundaries. And let me say this loud and clear: soft life is not laziness.  It’s healing. In this post, I’m sharing why I would choose soft living over and over again, what it really means (beyond Instagram aesthetics). Then how you can start your soft life journey, without going broke. What Is Soft Life, Really? It’s not just sipping wine in silk robes. Soft life is saying: - “No” without guilt. - Prioritizing mental health & wellness. - Slowing down to enjoy small joys. - Resting without shame. - Yes to healthy relationships & boundaries. - Yes to peace, beauty & amb...

Lost Opportunities and the Lessons They Leave Behind Have you ever looked back and thought, “If only I had done this differently…”? If we’re being honest, most of us have. Regrets have a way of creeping into our memories, nudging us to reflect on the choices we made or failed to make. But what really informs the decisions we take? How do we know which path deserves a “yes” and which deserves a firm “no”? By definition, opportunity is a favorable set of circumstances that makes progress possible. Some describe it as a chance, a moment, or a window in time when action could change everything. And here’s the truth: opportunities aren’t just the big, shiny doors we dream about; they’re woven into everyday life. Each day hands us chances to learn, love, impact someone, make progress, or even just pause to appreciate life. The problem is, many of us don’t notice them until they’ve slipped away. In this post, let’s explore life’s rare opportunities the kind that could alter the co...

# A family that exercise together, stays together - says Bebby! We live in a fast-paced world and the modern family is an active family, finding time for family bonding can be a real challenge.  Nothing beats family time but as the saying goes, "Kill two birds with one stone"   means there's a possibility you could combine quality time with your loved ones and a commitment to a healthier lifestyle? In this blog post, we'll explore the benefits of incorporating fitness into your family routine and provide practical tips on how to make it an enjoyable and sustainable part of your lifestyle. The Importance of Family Fitness: Family is the basic unit in society that consist of parents and the children they are raising.  Our responsibilities as parents transcends provision of basic necessities such as food, shelter, education and med...

Hi, rember how we said we intend to do a whole lot of blogging? well this is it, a tip of the iceberg, a lot more to come. Tell me what do you think?

I would like to begin by thanking everyone that has read and commented on my blog and subscribers who follow me on bebby's blog. It would not be complete without a Confident Woman Feature, you guys rock. Welcome to The Confident Woman  blog, to be called the "CONFIDENT WOMEN DIARIES". The Confident woman started as a desire to inspire women through the use of social media and to uplift women and put a smile on their faces with stories that . It will be a platform to learn and discuss issues such as Entrepreneurship, Family, Marriage, Technology and Women, Fashion, work and so much more. Women have to be confident, resilient and supportive of one another.  Women are gifted and talented to multitask, as such have the ability to achieve a lot in a day. They should learn to drive other women for success and be a support system to one another. My parents has four (4) girls and made us understand we can be anything we want to be. My dad made us understand the importance of prep...

Just turned 30? Welcome to club 30 LOL Where we are not to old to have fun but old enough to know when to stop. Here we go guys, your life is waiting to begin. Okay, I have been thirty for like hmm 3 to 4 years now. Let me officially say I am still a learner, but from what I have seen so far, a lot did change. I must say that I grew up.  The time I turned 30, my baby sister Dr. Fay , I can't remember why said to me "auntie you are getting old o"  Ah! Okay I felt a bit of fear. I had a lot that I hadn't achieved in my 20's, things I thought I'd have achieved before 30. Example, I had planned to get married at 22 years old and have about 6 beautiful kids before 30. I am super serious right now.  It didn't happen. Just out of curiosity, how much of what you had high hopes for happened for you?  My University Education didn't even happen as planned.  Life did happen for sure. As most people would say. I was wise in my 20's, I got wiser in my 30s. We a...